Surviving and Thriving: Betti's Journey from Arranged Marriage to Community Catalyst

"Food is a luxury." These four words from Betti, a British-Asian single mother in Newcastle, cut straight to the heart of Britain's cost of living crisis. In this powerful episode of A Slice of Bread and Butter, we meet a woman whose resilience shines through a life story marked by extraordinary challenges.

Betti's journey begins with an arranged marriage at just 16 years old, entering a world she wasn't prepared for. With remarkable candour and unexpected humour, she shares the cultural complexities of growing up between two worlds and the shocking moment she discovered she was engaged to a stranger. Years later, after building a family with three children, Betti made the difficult decision to divorce—facing cultural backlash, community isolation, and the bewildering task of learning to live independently after years as a "kept woman." Her descriptions of not knowing about water bills or car taxes paint a vivid picture of the steep learning curve many face when starting over.

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